Conversation went like this:
ME: Mom, I'm one of the finalists for that job in Minneapolis.
MOM: Great, honey!
ME: Yeah, it pays a good chunk more.
MOM: That'd be wonderful
ME: With all that extra money, I'd be in a position . . . you know . . . if something happened and you needed someone to take you in . . . I'd be able to send my sister money and help her out.
Go in Peace